Serving the Antichrist

Below is a picture of Whitewater Community Church’s Pastor, Will Groben:

Will Groben

In the nearly two years since I last updated this website, Whitewater Community Church has done nothing but continue their wickedness against me and continued to serve women rather than serving God.  Whenever there’s a difference of desires between a woman and God, they side against God to pander to the wickedness of women.  They lack the balls to confront, follow-through, and discipline a woman.  They would all rather unite under a state of godless lawlessness than use church organized disciplinary pressure to try to cause any women to turn to righteousness.  I published years ago that I had asked this church, in the name of Jesus Christ, to discipline my wife who was divorcing me for No-Fault.  But the church elders refused to even let me speak to them about the situation, the worthless head elder stated that they were not going to discipline my wife, it was already decided without even hearing about the matter from me.  They prefer to be willfully ignorant, servants of the Great Whore. 

While this situation may seem to be a bit incomprehensible, the video I’ve posted below explains how churches like Whitewater Community Church (WCC) get turned aside to following after the spirit of Antichrist:

The video above is the only one that I will recommend from its Orthodox author, but it is quite explanatory.

Churches, like WCC, whom unrepentant whores, like my ex-wife, now rule over, think they are doing good when they joyfully assist wayward whores. And those cowards thought they were doing good when they unquestioningly obeyed the government which illegally asked that they close their doors. If the leaders of WCC had the balls to oppose lawlessness, their response to our state’s Governess might have gone more like this:

Acts 5:27 The soldiers brought the apostles to the meeting and made them stand before the leaders. The high priest questioned them, 28 saying, “We gave you strict orders not to continue teaching in that name. But look, you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching and are trying to make us responsible for this man’s death.” 29 Peter and the other apostles answered, “We must obey God, not human authority!

WCC not only tolerates wickedness in their church, but they actively encourage it and aid those who do it. Not only have they worked with my unrepentant ex-wife in helping her to alienate my sons from me, and assuring that they are now growing up fatherless, like bastards, but they take turns in supplanting me and usurping my role in the lives of my sons. These servants of Antichrist including the once head of their elder board are taking turns stealing my fatherly role and teaching my sons to drive, since their mother doesn’t want to, and they apparently don’t want me to have any time together with my sons.

One of the last times I did pick up my youngest son for some time together, Dan Claassen was over at my wife’s place working on her vehicle on the weekend. And it was only my son who prevented me from confronting that servant of Satan helping an unrepentant whore to leave her husband without experiencing any negative consequences. When I was married I’d contacted the business where Dan Claassen worked, once when I had issues with my vehicle and I was absolutely refused weekend service and told to figure out some way to get my vehicle over there on Monday. Clearly Dan and his ilk weren’t willing to help a man during his struggling marriage the way he now runs to make weekend house calls to aid an unrepentant whore.

Anyhow, my youngest son went away to a WCC church retreat, and then told me upon the day of his return, that he no longer wanted to see me. I have no doubt that the liars of that Satan serving den of Feminism will deny there is any connection to their having access to him. And if they were to speak to me they’d demonically try to gaslight me, claiming that my alienation from my sons is a result of some fault on my own part. Such as countering the woman-worshipping lies they’ve taught to my sons.

No, these servants of Satan volunteered to participate in helping my ex-wife’s divorce, to speak with the divorce court social worker who then cited their secret testimony as the basis to unilaterally deny me all custody of my sons, in order to take from me the maximum amount of child support and alimony. WCC’s servants of Satan volunteered their time to work with the Satanic divorce court to keep me from having any guaranteed time with my sons, or influence over my sons, and they continue to work to keep my sons alienated from me.

My ex-wife still hasn’t even given me copies of all the digital family photos I’ve been requesting for well over five years. And numerous times I have copied her worthless ass-kissing pastor, Will Groben, on my emails requesting them. That evil son of Satan doesn’t even want me to have mementos of my time with sons. I know for a fact my wife would comply if anybody pressured her to do what is right. That’s why I asked for church discipline in the first place. Unlike me, that intimacy-anorexic whore wants to keep up a fake public image, and to maintain her association with those damnable fools. The divorce court doesn’t care about father’s rights. Like Whitewater Community Church, the satanic divorce court’s goal is the outright destruction of God’s holy order of patriarchy.

Exodus 21:16 Anyone who kidnaps a person, whether they have been sold or are still being held, should be put to death.

These servants of Satan have actively participated in helping my ex-wire to take my sons from me, their own father, and they continue participating in keeping them from me. Doing whatever they feel is necessary to keep my sons from feeling the need of a father or from honoring their father. The whole community knows I want my sons, living with me, and under my guidance. But WCC works to encourage my sons to disobey and defy me, just as they’ve also done with my ex-wife.

Proverbs 15:5 A fool despises his father’s instruction, but whoever heeds reproof is prudent.

WCC teaches my sons to be fools. And If you go there, they’ll also teach your children disobedience.

Ephesians 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. 2 Honor thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; 3 That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.

If you believe what God’s word says, they by teaching my sons to dishonor their father’s perfectly sensible wishes, are the ones clearly not wanting the best for my sons.

And why are they doing this? What got them started against me? I requested a chance to ask their elder board, in the name of Jesus Christ, to discipline my unrepentant ex-wife for her wickedness, since she had chosen to go to their woman-worshipping coven while divorcing me for no-fault. But they cancelled my appointment and have refused to even hear of it. Because they worship all women as images of their Great Whore goddess.

They told my sons I’m a false teacher because I told my sons that women should pray with their heads covered, like God’s word clearly explains in 1 Corinthians 11. Their own Mennonite grandmothers all outwardly obeyed that command of God. Yet they now claim that God was merely instructing women to put long hair on their heads whenever they wanted to pray, not an actual head covering like all churches had practiced for over 1900 years, since the days of the apostles’ oversight, and in keeping with the clear reading of the Greek text. But these lawless false teachers now encourage disobedience to the commands of our Father, God, and they turn suckers aside to their modern lies and satanic feminist-invented excuses.

The people of WCC have almost entirely refused to speak with me, regarding disciplining my wife, and about anything really, to the point where I felt compelled to put up this entire website asking them to carry out the prescribed church discipline in the name of Jesus Christ, so that the whole world could see I had made every possible effort to let it be known that I want them to quit their cowardice and their lawlessness and follow Jesus Christ’s prescribed steps of church discipline against my wayward ex-wife.

And what do these shit-stains on the name of Christ, who are refusing to speak to me, do? Firstly those liars tried telling my sons that my website was all lies. Yet no supposed lie was ever specified. Then later they told my sons that I’m wrong to write on the internet about those things their members did to me, because the first step of church discipline (which they refuse to do) is to bring up matters privately. Yet previously when I approached these folks they refused to speak with me, both the individuals, and the church’s whole board of cunt-worshipping fools. Those cowards even contacted the civil authorities over my request that they follow God’s word. They’ve got lies and excuses for every thing they do in service of their lord, Satan, and in service of the defiling women whom Satan wants them all hearkening to. And since I’ve published their wickedness against me, if they wanted to follow the Bible, it teaches that they should come to me.

Matthew 5:23 So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.

I’m kinfolk to many of these woman-worshippers, and they know I’m mad at their evil which they’ve committed against me. Yet every weekend they go play church while ignoring those, like me, who have good reason to despise them, for their cowardice, their Feminist idolatry, and the ungodly lies they tell my sons.

What is the final passage of the Old Testament?

Malachi 4:5 Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: 6 And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.

Whitewater Community Church does not operate in accordance with the Spirit of Christ, but of Antichrist, and they don’t operate in accordance with the spirit of God’s servant Elijah, who turns the hearts of the sons to their fathers, but instead they work in the spirit of Elijah’s adversary, Jezebel. They have worked and are continuing to work to keep my sons and their hearts turned away from their father.

When I was still married and my sons were very young a member of this church contacted my wife and told her to lie to me, to run out on me, to steal my sons, and to go off to where her former lovers all lived, one of whom I caught my wife receiving dick-pics from, and another I found she had sent swimsuit photos to.(all while refusing to provide sex to her husband) She never ever talked to me to find out what was going on. Because her church’s religion is that women are goddesses, so naturally, they act as if you can just “believe all women”, and never need to talk to her God-appointed head.

Much like how Super-Simp Ron Gallegos couldn’t get it through his head that a woman can sin all by herself. And that eternal fool spent a few hours continually attempting to desperately pin all the blame for my wife’s wickedness onto me. I corrected him repeatedly, but like a dog returning to eat his own vomit, the idolatrous fool could have no other mind but to worship women.

Anyhow this church and their wickedness, which they do in the name of the Son of God, will bring the wrath of God down upon themselves.

I once was taught at churches that their pastor’s kids were always the worst, because Satan especially targeted them to discredit their parent’s ministry’s. But I now believe they’re usually the worst because they get the most direct exposure to their parents’ phony religion.

When Will Groben refuses to discipline an unrepentant whore like my wife, who can be characterized in a nutshell as the kind of nasty whore who sucked the dicks of many other folks but never her own husband of over 15 years, according to her own words, to intentionally show her disrespect for the man who married her, and his church actively contends against and supplants her longsuffering husband and the father of her sons, seeking to celebrate and assist the unrepentant whore in any way they can, what is he teaching his own daughter? Is he not teaching her that if she becomes a cock-sucking whore who then sexually defrauds her own husband and divorces him and steals his kids, that churchmen like himself will do everything they can for her, siding against her defrauded husband, and making a celebrity of her and worshipping her for not following the Bible? That’s exactly what he is teaching her, and anybody else’s kids at that church. But his own daughter will have the most exposure to the rottenness of his worse-than-worldly lawless woman-worshipping religion. It will be a miracle of God’s grace if she doesn’t become a whore, like the kind they celebrate at their church.

But the coward wouldn’t dare to do church discipline on a wicked and unrepentant Jezebel, to show his daughter that he doesn’t tacitly approve of everything immoral women do. Because his lord, Satan, delights at him presiding over a lawless coven of Jezebels, as he continues offering them spiritual indulgence for their immorality. Will Groben’s church is a cesspit of Feminist cunt-worship and their goal is to disrupt God’s holy order of patriarchy and to gain further access to men’s children by turning them against their fathers. That’s what they did to me. And they’ve shown no sign of repentance. They’re still continuing to double-down on their ungodly evil. They’re sold out to Satan!

The worth-ship of Women

How church leaders react when asked to correct a woman

How church leaders react when asked to confront a woman.

Yesterday was my oldest son’s birthday. I haven’t seen or spoken to either of my now teenage sons since last fall. I don’t doubt that their mother is once again telling my boys that our lack of contact is because I don’t love them. In a short while I will be again hauled into divorce court to finalize my wife’s complete destruction of our family. My sons are suffering and will continue to suffer lasting effects from the destruction of their family. Whitewater Community Church and its members have played a very active role in the destruction of my family, and are still continuing to try to encourage my wife and sons to separate themselves from me, even now. God’s patriarchal family order is just as anathema to their “church”, as is following Jesus Christ’s clear directions for church discipline when it concerns a woman.

Malachi 4:5 Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: 6 And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the sons, and the heart of the sons to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.

If you will recall, God first struck the earth with a curse when Adam hearkened to the voice of his wife:

Genesis 3:17 And unto Adam He said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;

Note that God cursed the serpent and Eve both directly and bodily for their transgressions, but God did not curse His own image and glory, Adam,(1 Corinthians 11:7) directly, but instead God cursed the earth, which Adam was made from, being created from the dust of the earth into the image of our eternal Father and Son Godhead. And the day is quickly coming when God the Father who loves His Son, and made fathers and sons to image the Godhead of Father and Son and their united Spirit, will curse the earth again if men do not image God correctly, but estrange sons from their fathers through their godless wickedness. Fatherlessness is an epidemic, and Whitewater Community Church is contributing to it by trying to ensure that my sons cannot have both a father and a mother in unity, by refusing to ask my wife to submit to her husband, as the Bible commands:

Colossians 3:18 Wives, be subject to your husbands, as it is fitting in the Lord.

Matthew 19:5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Whitewater community church has also taught my sons that I am a false teacher because I say that their women are wrong to dishonor their heads by praying with their heads uncovered. Yet they are the disobedient false teachers.

1 Corinthians 11:5 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven. 6 For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. 7 For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.

1 Corinthians 11 spends half a chapter teaching women when and why to wear their head covering. And for over nineteen hundred years all Christian women everywhere covered their heads in obedience, at least in church, if not elsewhere also. The great-grandmothers of these same lawless leaders, who now turn my sons against me over this teaching, all wore head coverings. And Whitewater Community Church was formerly called Swiss Church and was a congregation of Mennonite believers before they decided to throw off the God of their forefather’s and hearken to worldly women. The worldly women were given the worth-ship to be followed, above this holy command of God, that their Godfearing forefathers did not allow to be flouted on their watch. They worshipped God instead of giving the worth-ship to be followed to homewrecking Feminists.

So how do these godless fools leave off of following God’s word? They turn aside to lies & excuses. These are they “Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature (women) more than the Creator”. Between my wife and them, they have also coached my sons to turn away from me when I mention the Bible. I have neither seen nor spoken to my sons in over eight months. The last time I got to speak to my sons, with their mother watching them, within moments, as soon as I asked my boys if they remembered Ephesians 6:1-3 which they memorized for AWANA, they both quickly looked towards each other nodded to each other, and together said they didn’t want to talk to me anymore and then walked back to their mother who was watching and waiting for them to do exactly that to me.

Ephesians 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. 2 Honor thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; 3 That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.

Whitewater Community Church and their mother have together coached my sons to flee from me when I try to instruct my sons to obey God’s word. Because they themselves refuse to obey it, but teach lies and excuses to people instead.

For the almost three and a half years my divorce has been ongoing, and the various leaders and pastors of Whitewater Community Church have all refused to confront my wife and ask her to end her frivolous divorce and submit to treatment for her wicked behavioral addiction (Intimacy Anorexia) that her husband has asked her to submit to. They have refused to follow Jesus Christ’s commanded steps for church discipline. They have all refused to ever perform the duty of the church when I have asked them all to do that, in the name of Jesus Christ, either face to face, over the phone, or via this web-testimony, and in front of a great cloud of eternal heavenly witnesses. Like their brand new pastor, Will Groben, they all make excuse after excuse for why they couldn’t possibly confront a woman. Yet I just got a copy of a report filed in my wife’s divorce that shows that their church voluntarily has worked with the divorce court to help the divorce court finish up the Devil’s work of separating my son’s from me. The court report states that “Pastor Timothy Connor, (Mom’s former pastor) … Trevor Thiessen (youth group leader), Dean Good (Mom’s friend from church)” all volunteered to speak at length to Tish Morrical, a court-appointed Feminazi who is also in rebellion against God’s patriarchal design for families. I don’t even know who Trevor Thiessen is. But those same shiftless church leaders who claim to be incapable of speaking the word of God to my wife when I have publicly asked them to, in the name of Jesus Christ, then volunteer to speak to a wicked servant of the satanic divorce industry to help my wife complete her ungodly frivolous divorce, and the destruction of her sons’ home. Instead of correcting my frivolously divorcing wife, and saving my sons’ home, after speaking with three leaders of Whitewater Community church, the court report concludes that, “Mom’s church community has rallied around and supported Mom as much as they can.” The report also indicated that the church cowards had called the police, apparently wanting to protect themselves from me, as they help my wife to end her marriage. LOL They should be seeking protection from God. They have refused to obey Jesus Christ’s prescribed steps of church discipline, while calling on secular powers and voluntarily working with the divorce court to battle to keep me from being the head of my family.

John 19:10 Then saith Pilate unto him, Speakest thou not unto me? knowest thou not that I have power to crucify thee, and have power to release thee? 11 Jesus answered, Thou couldest have no power at all against me, except it were given thee from above: therefore he that delivered me unto thee hath the greater sin.

The imps who operate the godless divorce courts will fare better on judgement day than these “churches” which hearken to women over God, and assist women in turning their husbands over to the divorce courts to be stripped of their rights, their earnings, their inheritance, their retirement, and to have their children kidnapped, for “no fault”, only the evil whims of a rebellious wife whom they have trained to be discontent via their godless Feminist doctrine.

Those wicked fools will answer to God for why they wouldn’t use their mouths to speak for God, but would instead speak in the service of Satan. Like former church leader Leland Entz, who used his mouth to threaten to beat me up when I was a child, if I wouldn’t strip naked for his enjoyment, yet he can’t use his mouth to speak the word of the Lord to my wife, nor to confess that sin publicly, after he publicly shamed me as a child. His mouth apparently doesn’t repent, as easily as it threatens children with violence if they don’t want to get naked with him. And like my wife who chose never to use her mouth to please her own husband, but only to serve Satan by sucking the penises of men who were not her husband. Whitewater Community Church chose her to lead your children if you go there. She can teach the girls by example how to submit themselves bodily to everyone but their own future husband who images Jesus Christ in the marriage. And the church didn’t put my divorcing wife as a leader over their children until after I told them about that, and about how she had even helped the school to hide it from me when my one son was repeatedly fondled at school.

I did get to talk to the church’s new pastor, Will Groben, two months ago on April 13, 2021. And he seemed to agree with me on some things. However, he rattled off a lengthy list of excuses when It came to him actually doing or saying anything to help my family. He claimed that he had stuff like church finances to deal with. He insinuated that his church contained people who might not be saved, people who didn’t know their Bible, and the people weren’t going to permit him to do something as spiritually advanced as church discipline on a frivolously divorcing wife. I reckon Will Groben just doesn’t want to follow God himself. It was apparent he was far more concerned about keeping his new hireling position, than obeying God’s word. Will Groben whined that he was fairly new there and still had some of his stuff in boxes. LOL I guess his wife still hasn’t unpacked the box where she put his balls.

As I refused to accept one excuse after another for why his church couldn’t follow Christ’s teaching, he kept giving more excuses, until he changed the subject and tried to go on about Calvinism’s “Unconditional-election”, and “Irresistible-grace”.

Among the many things I picked up from the conversation, was that Will had spent the last seven years going to seminary part time and had been preparing to come to this church for a long time. He was aware of my website before he ever came. This shiftless newbie asked me to take my personal testimony down, instead of him accepting my exhortation to obey Jesus Christ and help bring my family’s testimony to a godly conclusion.

Titus 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Revelation 12:11 And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death.

Clearly I’m going to continue adding to my testimony against this synagogue of Satan. Their propaganda is not God’s Gospel but basically they teach men to repeat Adam’s original sin of complying with Satan’s desire for men to give women the worth-ship to be obeyed before God. If I were man’s Creator, and Adam had relegated me to second sovereign behind his wife, I’d make my very first commandment: “Thou shalt have no other gods before me. … for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God”. Of course I’d first curse the wicked serpent and curse the usurping woman by adding bodily pain to her purpose, and I’d reaffirm to her that “he shall rule over thee.”

I intend to warn other men of what this whoring church is fighting to do to me, and would also like to do to them. This church is the hands & feet and mouths of Satan, and their true desire is to see men, who are the image and glory of God, made the servants of women.

Ephesians 5:11 Do not participate in the useless deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;

That’s why they’ll so naturally cooperate with a divorce court, but not with Jesus’ prescribed church discipline. They and the divorce court are both in unity about taking all men’s effective headship away and artificially giving women a supremacy that is so high that it places these “goddesses” above needing to obey our Father God’s commandments or even keeping their own vows.

By this female-supremacist church’s continuing refusal to ask my wife to submit to her own head and to quit her frivolous divorce, and by instead helping her to alienate my sons from me and by voluntarily assisting her case with the divorce court, this “church” is assuring their eternal enmity with both myself and my heavenly Father.

However, as much as these gelded fools might want to get back at me for exposing their following the world’s Feminism and for exposing their idolatrously giving women greater worth-ship to be feared and obeyed than God, they can only fail. Whatever they think they will take from me, I shall in recompense from the hand of God, receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life. They will only make my life a testimony against theirs. While this Whitewater Cunt Club is ashamed that God’s word says in Ephesians 5:24, “Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.”, I on the other hand, will glory that God said that. God’s ways for men are truly higher than Whitewater Community Church’s pussy-begging ways!

The way of lawlessness 

On a separate note, I had a churchgoing relative who wrote to me insulting me for being a soon to be divorced man, since in his mind it must be all my fault, since I’m the titular head of my wife.   I called him up and tried to reason with the willfully blinded fool, but he was quite stubborn in maintaining his cunt-worship.  He believes with typical churchian cognitive dissonance that husbands can do nothing to force a wife to do anything, yet the husband is somehow still responsible, even though the husband’s authority is effectively now only an outdated imaginary concept.  Apparently he has never heard that, authority without responsibility is tyranny, and responsibility without authority is slavery.  Again, these folks want to see every man enslaved to a woman whom they put before God.  The fact that there couldn’t even be any disunity if a wife obeyed in everything, and as unto the Lord, hadn’t even crossed his feminized mind. 

Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

However the point I want to raise is that for every sin and failure of this church that I brought up, the churchian tried to spin it as my fault for noticing.  When I said the women went to church dressed like whores, he claimed I only noticed them because I was lustful.  And after saying that he hadn’t been to my site, he somehow brought up how I wrote here that Dean Good, the one time head of the elder board, was wearing skin tight pants the time I intended to confront him about why the women were allowed to show up dressed that way, and of course the silly churchian then said that I must be gay to have noticed.  LOL  

What My churchian relative was doing is in effect defending all lawlessness by accusing any person who tries to call others to righteousness.  I have gotten that exact same response from my wife’s church.  They will make baseless counter accusations against any person who points out how their church is not following the Bible, but has gone foul.  Whitewater Community Church’s apologetics and the defense of their religious practice is truly no further advanced than, “he who smelt it dealt it.”

Steer clear of these self-deluded clowns and read the Bible for yourself.  You’ll be eternally grateful you did.  And your kids will be safer too. 

Whitewater Community Church Update

Whitewater Community Church “Minister” Timothy Conner

My wife, Pam Entz, who regularly attends Whitewater Community Church, has been frivolously “No-Fault” divorcing me, for almost three years now.   By “No-Fault” I mean, I have committed no fault that would justify an “At-Fault” divorce, either in God’s eyes or the eyes of Kansas Law.  According to God’s law only husbands can issue a divorce.  My wife, who filed for an ungodly divorce, is however at fault, according to the laws as they stand in both Kansas and according to God.  She is guilty of “failure to perform a material marital duty”, by defrauding her husband of sex, she is in fact guilty of sexual immorality.

1 Corinthians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

However, this post is not going to be focused on my wife’s sexual immoralities, but upon how Whitewater Community Church encourages her in her ungodly and frivolous divorce and becomes a partaker in her sexual immorality and other sins against me and against my sons.  As I have mentioned before I have repeatedly asked, in the name of Jesus Christ, for Whitewater Community Church to perform church discipline on my wife, but they have refused to even discuss the possibility.  Quite frankly they all lack the balls to confront women because of their Feminism.  And the guys who run that church would all rather curse God than stand up to a woman, because they do that when they give women the worth-ship to be obeyed rather than God.

Pastor Timothy Conner, is your typical gluttonous(obese) and emasculated churchian false teacher.  And the hypocrite preaches one thing while doing the opposite.   Apparently like the rest of the cowardly castrati who lead that church, he has sworn to my wife(a representation of his goddess) not to speak to me, in contradiction to Jesus teaching: 

Matthew 5:23 So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. 25 Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are going with him to court, lest your accuser hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you be put in prison. 26 Truly, I say to you, you will never get out until you have paid the last penny.

However, false teacher Timothy Conner is not able to obey God because he is a follower of this world’s Feminism first, and a follower of Christ second.

I just got done listening to Tim Conner’s message “Biblical Manhood”, I was interested because it was the churches complete lack of any manhood or cajones, that caused my wife to initially pick this worldly church to be her cheerleader as she completes her frivolous divorce, and keeps my sons from their father through lies and treachery.  Tim’s message was like a typical churchian father’s day message, full of derision and calls for men to quit being the images of Homer Simpson that churchians view fathers to be.  He was also emphatic about men being primarily servants, and played “hide the headship” like Dalrock has described churchian pastors doing:

https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2018/03/26/headship-tomorrow-and-headship-yesterday-but-never-headship-today/

Clearly Tim is keeping men emasculated in the “Cult of Nice”.  During his message he said, “men are accountable for spiritual leadership within their families”.   However, I won’t have a family soon because of his churches ongoing spiritual misleadership of my wife, and the false teaching of other hirelings that have cancelled out the Bible’s message to wives of submission to their husbands in everything.  I can’t rule over a wife who has been in complete rebellion since our wedding day, and conveniently turns to cunt-worshipping cucks like Timothy Conner to excuse all her godless rebellion.

Next Timothy Connor false taught(at 28:00-28:20 in the video), “Eve sinned first, but Adam was blamed for failing to lead her. Genesis 3:11 and 17.”  That is a Feminist lie.  The only thing thrice holy God blamed Adam for was; “Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it.”

Feminist false teacher Timothy Connor twists the man’s original sin from listening to and giving his wife the worth-ship to be obeyed above God, and instead he conjures some failure to lead(Feminist claptrap) out of thin air, after having first mocked men who may point out, how God clearly tells us that Eve transgressed first.  Then Tim claims that in 1 Peter 3:7 in the term “weaker vessel”(which refers to wives): that “weaker” really means “precious”.   Perhaps he should publish his own Feminist Bible.

Apparently pastor Tim’s god is a poor author and he used a word that slights women when he really meant to adore them.  Either that or Tim is twisting what was clearly written to suit his Feminism.  

Anyhow, I’m not really posting this to delve into Pastor Timothy Conner’s false teachings either, it is the churches wicked actions on behalf of Satan, and their refusal to act on behalf of God, that I’m here to address.

Children should ideally have two parents.  Mine don’t because my wife just disregards their needs as much as she disregards her marriage and her Christianity.  Her intimacy-anorexia, which is a behavioral addiction on the sex-addiction spectrum, is what controls her life.  For three years our divorce has been dragging on while she lies and dodges every attempt to get her into any form of joint marriage counselling.  Pam claims she wants to reconcile, yet she refuses to participate in any actions that could lead to reconciliation.  I have been able to disprove all the false accusations that she has filed against me, and have been found by experts to be free of any psychological disorders and most specifically I have been found to be completely free of any Sex/porn addiction that she accused me of having in order to steal my sons away. 

Pam is supposed to be sharing the boys with me by agreement, and yet she has refused to turn my sons over for any parenting time with their father, to the point where I have not seen or spoken to my sons in months.  She just lies and dodges her own agreements while Whitewater Community Church cheers on every aspect of her rebellion, her unfaithfulness, and her rapidly approaching divorce.  They will not say a single word of correction to her about her wickedness.  Instead they are ALL cheering her on towards the finish line of her divorce, and the permanent destruction of our sons home, by their actions and inaction, by their silence, and by their words.

When God walked this earth as a man, Jesus Christ said of marriage, “What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”  According to God’s holy laws women were not allowed to divorce, only a husband could give his wife a writ of divorce.  And that, according to Jesus, could only be done for the cause of sexual immorality.  God the Father wants fathers and sons to be united in spirit.  As is clearly demonstrated in the concluding verse of the Old Testament:

Malachi 4:5 Behold, I send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and terrible day of the LORD:  6 and he shall convert the heart of the fathers to the sons, and the heart of the sons to the fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with destruction.

However, the folks at Whitewater Community Church encourage my wife to keep my sons from me, and are encouraging her to divorce me without ever attending any joint marriage counselling, in the best interest of our sons.  They are likely to do this same work of Satan against other men, so be warned, stay separate from these folks who directly oppose God at every turn, and embrace Satan’s Feminism.  They won’t hesitate to encourage your wife to divorce and steal your kids, as they are doing to me.  They even work to help my wife turn the boys hearts against me.  Most specifically they taught my sons I was a false teacher because I believe women should wear a head covering when they pray as God commanded them to in 1 Corinthians 11.  There is no way those Feminists would ever want a woman to wear a symbol of submission on her head, regardless that God spent half a chapter telling them why and at what times to wear a head covering.  They are just absolutely against God’s holy patriarchy, and they are helping Feminists to deny husband’s headship. 

For example, perhaps a year ago, I asked another one of their (gluttonous to the point of  being obese) leaders, elder Bart Tillotson, about divorce, and he claimed to be against it, except in cases of adultery.  So then I asked him, in the name of Jesus Christ, to then go tell my wife to stop her frivolous divorce, and that emasculated coward absolutely refused.  Even the elders of the church are absolutely worthless men who don’t have the willingness to confront women, whom they value above God.  If there is a choice to be made between certainly offending God or possibly offending a woman, they’ll disown God to instead empower a woman’s rebellion every time. 

Nor do worthless guys like Bart Tillotson care that my two sons have been turned against their father for the last three years as my wife has attended his church and he has refused to find his cajones and do what I asked of him in the name of Jesus Christ.  You see guys like Bart are shiftless misleaders who would rather stand there with his thumb up his ass, as my wife foolishly tears her own house apart, while under his poor leadership, than to ever dare to speak a word of correction to a woman.  I don’t even know the guy.  What could I have done at that point, for him to refuse to say a word to help my family, when I asked him to, in the name of Jesus Christ?  I think everybody knows the answer.  It is that every single man in that church is too afraid to repeat the truth, spoken by Jesus Christ, if it might offend a frivolously divorcing woman, like my wife.  Again, in the name of Jesus Christ, I dare any of those hell-bound fools to prove me wrong about their abject spiritual cowardice!  

Pam claimed today, 12/5/2020, in an email to me, “After you have had some counseling and your therapist feels you are ready for joint marriage counseling, then we can revisit that option”.

I have been through two thorough psychological evaluations costing thousands of dollars and involving many appointments, lots of tests, and all sorts of interrogation regarding my mental state, and further I went to counselling, and the therapist said the entire time that I was able to have joint marriage counselling any time Pam was ever willing.  Furthermore when I finally harangued the owner of the counselling place into giving me an answer as to why we had not received the joint marriage counselling I was seeking for over a year, he said after talking to both of our therapists, narrowly skirting privacy laws, that the only possible way that we would not have had joint marriage counselling after a year was if Pam was claiming that it would cause her “trauma”, and that her attorney most likely instructed her to say that after they agreed in court to the joint marriage counselling, right before I was going to get it court ordered.

Pam is lying her butt off to keep from having to give up her sinful behavioral addiction,(intimacy-anorexia) and submit to treatment for it.  And furthermore she is teaching our kids to distance themselves from me as well, all while Whitewater Community Church hearkens to the lies of this homewrecking addict with three other diagnosed psychological disorders, including a thought disorder, which can skew her own ability to perceive reality, instead of hearkening to God’s word.  They are so committed to giving women the worth-ship to be obeyed rather than God, that they’re letting a psych-med popping crazy woman lead them all to defy God’s commands for marriage and the family.  Its the tail wagging the dog at that church, due to their Feminism, my mentally-medicated wife is given more authority there than the Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit Himself.  Spare yourself their homewrecking influence, stay away from useless apostate churches like this one that can’t even stand up to their own attendees, let alone the world.

There are no longer whores, only verbally abusive men. /S

Whores don't get cold

Slut-Walks are now being organized by sluts to ‘reclaim’ the word “Slut”.  Apparently the word “Slut” has a bad connotation associated with it; organizers say that was caused by “The Patriarchy”, which is to say: all previous generations of the church that upheld God’s patriarchal order and laws condemning sexual immorality and effectively instilled those godly values throughout past generations of society.   But, no more!   The word “slut” now will mean; an empowered woman who seduces and indiscriminately copulates with whomever will dare to stick his dick in her.  But now “slut” will supposedly mean those things in a more positive way, free from the shaming of the patriarchy that the church, and societies impacted by an effective church, previously maintained.

So how did we get to become such an immodest and immoral generation where women even attend church dressed like the whores that they are?

The immodesty and immorality of our generation is a legacy of cowardice and inaction on the part of the past leaders of our nation’s churches.  That has led to a worthless “church” that today intentionally resembles the world, which has grown much more evil on those hireling’s watch.  You can read the lack of willingness to enforce modesty in the following language from Whitewater Community Churches website:

Come as you are

Casual, Business Dress, Formal. At Whitewater Community Church our concern is not on your outward appearance, but on the inward appearance of your heart.

While that sounds so “nice”, what they’re clearly saying is; that they haven’t the balls to rein in evil-hearted immodest women.  They Slut-walk their way into that church and they esteem them as goddesses with pure hearts.  And it showed, whenever their church was open.   The goofballs that ran that church are probably far more upset that I would even use words designed to shame immodest and immoral women.  No doubt they think I’m “verbally abusive” for trying to use words to correct whores.(whom they worship as goddesses above reproach.)

As I mentioned once before, one time when I was there for an Awana awards night, I had intended to talk to someone from the churches leadership about how many of the women’s clothing was too tight, only to find, Dean Good, then head of their elder board, wearing jeans so tight that they had to be painful.  At that point I realized the whole organization was lawless, in that regard, from the bottom to the top.(no pun intended)  My only remaining question is whether it was Dean’s intention to try enticing just womenfolk with his insanely tight jeans or also the other sexually deviant leaders of Whitewater Chomo Church?

While those elders are too emasculated and impotent to properly shame the hussies that come to their church, dressed to market their wares, I am not a coward like they are.  It will take men with the balls to openly repress women’s evil natures, to ever lead the church to restore God’s holy patriarchal design for families and society.  But, their “church” isn’t part of God’s Father & Son patriarchal kingdom.  They’re ashamed of God’s patriarchy.  They’re rebellious Feminists!  They don’t even have the balls to tell women to cover their heads when they pray.(1 Corinthians 11:3-10)  They twist God’s word, and nullify God’s commandment, because they are forced to.  Because they lack enough balls to tell women to cover their heads, or even to properly hide their tits and asses at church.  They’ve actually gotten that pathetic!   When the choice is between obeying God and telling women to cover their heads, versus obeying Feminists, who don’t want a symbol of subjection on a woman’s head, to whom does that “church” give the worth-ship to be followed?  The fools consistently worship women, the creature, above their Creator.

Just 100 years ago their Mennonite ancestor’s wives all covered their heads in obedience to God when they went to church or prayed.  And they weren’t wearing skintight tops or bottoms.  But now these cowardly beta-males pretend the gates of hell won’t prevail against their whoring “church”.  While their whorehouse’s doors are hell’s gateway.  They’re just blind guides, leading other blinded people into the pit.  Unless you also want to adore their hefty whores, don’t waste your time there joining in their rebellious whore worship.

Leland Entz – Pedophile

Herbert Entz Gravestone reverse side

I have never been a part of Whitewater Community Church.(formerly known as “Swiss Church”)  Swiss Church had always been described as a watered down and weaker version of the church I went to, it was one that was more concerned with being appealing to the worldly and unregenerate,(seeker-friendly) and less inclined to uphold and enforce any standards for holy behavior within their membership.  Well now that I am grown, I can see for myself that was true, and I am experiencing, firsthand, the fruit of their lawless rebellion against the holy discipline that was characteristic of the generations before, that were far more Godfearing than them.  Today they are a “church” so worldly and lawless that the only difference between them and the world is their vain and pretentious religious posturing and their dishonest hypocrisy.  Many of the women come to their whore-worshipping “church” dressed as sluts or whores, because they are whores to the core, and yet they arrogantly imagine themselves to be morally superior to the unchurched living around them who aren’t draping the name of Christ over their profligate and immoral lives.   Can anybody name an unchurched woman in Whitewater Kansas that gossips as much as Kay Hirsch?  I’ve lived in this community for the last 30 years, and I can’t.   I can tell you for a fact, that my wife, Pam (Bryson) Entz who often leads the children at Whitewater Community Church, is a completely unrepentant whore who has spent her entire marriage taunting me that she is glad that she willingly bowed herself down before many other guys and sucked their penises, but that she will never ever show her own husband any of that sort of respect, because she claims it would be “demeaning” to her as a person to show her God sanctified husband the same respect she has shown for Satan’s whoremongers.  That is intentional psychological abuse of her husband.  My wife literally started taunting me with that to intentionally distance me on our honeymoon!  And she went into detail explaining to me that it was intentional disrespect to assure that I wouldn’t fail to realize it was contemptuous.  She knew I was a man of God and that I would honor my vows even when she refused to ever honor hers.  My wife has a behavioral addiction called Intimacy-Anorexia that predisposes her to return evil for good, to those who seek intimacy with her, and her whore-worshiping church refuses to even ask her to get treatment from anybody certified to treat it.  Whitewater Community Church has been fully committed to seeing that my wife fully break her marriage and break her children’s home, rather than submit to her husband as God commands, and go to Dr. Doug Weiss to receive joint marriage treatment that specializes in treating Intimacy-Anorexia.

The ironic thing is that Dr. Weiss’ method involves counselling to realize the problem and the damage it causes, turning the morally and emotionally stunted addict from their destructive thinking and behaviors, and establishing new thought patterns and right behaviors.  In short Dr. Weiss’ method is a plan of repentance from the destructive behavior, something “churches” like Whitewater Community Church abhor when applied to women. (whom they worship as if they were sinless goddesses)  I can pay to get a plan of repentance from a mental health doctor, but I can’t get anything remotely like it, for my wife, at a woman worshipping “church”.  Nor can you trust the idolatrous cucks at today’s churches to back any man’s God intended headship.  They are Satan’s servants, who instead want men to hearken to and obey their wives, just like Satan got Adam to be led by Eve, and thereby defiled the whole world.

Leland Entz – Pedophile

So, what exactly are these leaders of Whitewater Community Church like?   Well, let me tell you about the one I know best: Leland James Entz is my cousin, and recently he was their deacon.  Apparently they staff their church leadership like a musical chairs game.  I suspect that once I tell them about Leland J. Entz’s history of pedophilia, that they will seek him out for their elder board, ASAP.

When I was, as I recollect, around 9 years old my family came during the summer to Kansas to visit my father’s relatives.  I was left in the care of my uncle, Leland’s father.  One night a group of male cousins went out after dark and I was in the care of my older male cousins whom I was tagging along with.  I have no idea why their consciences were so seared and depraved, but, about a mile away from the house, where there is a yard light at a tiny unmanned power distribution substation.  the older cousins all wanted to get naked and start dancing around naked with each other.  (The shame of their nakedness was the first recorded thing Adam and Eve realized when their eyes were opened to know good and evil.)  But apparently their own homoerotic lust was too strong for my older cousins, including Leland Entz, to resist.  The three youngest cousins, Karlen Udd, I, and Kris Udd, all did not want to get naked or be a part of what had suddenly turned into twisted homoerotic lewdness and lasciviousness.   But, to my horror, as a group, Leland Entz and my older cousins said they would beat us younger yet wiser cousins up if we did not take all our clothes off, and if we ever said anything about it.  We were too far from the house to scream for help and could not have run off without being caught and beaten up.  Leland Entz and his cousins forced us children to get naked with them for their sexual gratification.  This unlawful sexual act of lewd and lascivious behavior was perpetrated against us completely without our consent by force and by fear, If committed in the presence of a person younger than 16, it is a severity level 9 person felony.  Leland was publicly exposing a sex organ or exposing a sex organ in the presence of a person who is not the spouse of the offender and who has not consented thereto, with intent to arouse or gratify the sexual desires of the offender or another.  Since there were three of us children victimized, Leland’s sex crime against me and my cousins is, according to current Kansas sentencing guidelines, to be punished by 15-17 months imprisonment, and he would be placed on the sex offender registry.

I was sexually humiliated as a child, to further the gratification of the homoerotic lust of a Whitewater Community Church deacon Leland Entz and my older cousins.  Karlen and I tried as best we could to hide ourselves in the tall weeds besides the road, and as Karlen was weeping I was calling over to him trying to console him and was telling him not to cry.  For whatever reason, perhaps Stockholm syndrome, Kriston went over and joined the older cousins who had just forced him to expose his nakedness.  Then, after dancing around naked together like crazed homosexuals, at the intersection of SE 84th Street and South East Lake(Greenwich) Road, they all (except Karlen and I) exposed themselves to at least one northbound car, some of them doing naked cartwheels beside the road as the car went by.  I just hope there weren’t other children in that car.

Karlen Udd Gravestone

In all my life I have never forced another person to get naked.  I certainly did some foolish stuff myself when I was young, I confess that I mooned a few ladies, and I deeply regret having been that stupid.  But I never came close to committing felony sex crimes, and certainly not forcibly on children.  I would never have even thought to or wanted to.  Many years later when I was the older cousin to my younger cousins there was never even a thought of the faggotry, pedophilia, and lewdness, that Leland Entz and his ilk had enjoyed indulging in.  I just don’t have the deviant homosexual lust that he has, I never have.  I’m just heteronormative and only attracted to adults of the opposite sex.

I still am ashamed of what was done to me, and I really didn’t like having to write this.  But I feel it is important to give a testimony and a warning to others of what the leadership that I personally know from Whitewater Chomo Church, is like in secret.

Ephesians 5:11 Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.

Of their leadership that I know most personally, I know a man who will separate young children from their parents and protectors and then threaten to beat up children to force children to get naked with himself.  I know a man who will forcibly commit a grievous sex felony against unconsenting children and never repent or apologize keeping it secret for over forty years.  I know this leader of Whitewater Community Church to be a man whose Christianity is clearly a lie, and whose character is such that he will threaten children to force them to participate unwillingly in his sex felony.

John 3:19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.  20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.  21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.

Leland Entz has satanically run his mouth with threats against children to enable himself to behave as an abominable faggot, Leland will run his mouth for Satan with threats as a coercive pedophile, but when his former victim, who forgave him of his depraved wickedness and never pressed charges, begs him in the name of Jesus Christ, to speak God’s truth to his wife, as a church leader, to reunify his family.  That worthless one and his church comes up completely impotent and either unable or unwilling to perform the basic elements of Christian fellowship, and to be Christ to me, like I have been to him.

An irony is that this cowardly sin-concealing Leland’s own father was famous for his ability to confront people, and he is now buried directly beside one of Leland’s young victims who many years later was killed at age 13 in a car accident.

Karlen Udd & Herb Entz Gravestones

Matthew 5:23 Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee;  24 Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.  25 Agree with thine adversary quickly, whiles thou art in the way with him; lest at any time the adversary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer, and thou be cast into prison.  26 Verily I say unto thee, Thou shalt by no means come out thence, till thou hast paid the uttermost farthing.

Leland, while Karlen has long since gone to be with the Lord and you can no longer apologize to him or rectify your wickedness committed against him, and for that you will most certainly give an answer to his Creator, as surely as you were created.   Yet you have also still never taken any opportunity to apologize to me or reconcile with me like Jesus Christ tells you to in the verses above.  If you would care to attempt to follow Jesus Christ, I would like a public apology posted below here in response to this post, preferably in the next three days.  And further, I would like you to do the works of your own father and get your apostate “church” to confront my wife quickly as Mathew 18:15-17 instructs them in order to be the body of Christ.  Otherwise stop falsely calling yourself a Christ follower and stay away from my family.

Heavy Horny Homewrecking Hussy

Pussy is God

Whitewater Community Church has been instrumental, step by step, in encouraging my wife, to first disrespect me, then rebel, then lie to me, then run out on me, and finally to frivolously divorce me for no fault, but my wife’s own hard heartedness, which they continue to actively encourage.  Today I will highlight one couple, Jenny & Leon Koehn, who have gone out of their way to willfully be the servants of Satan in attacking my marriage and my children’s home.

A feature of my wife’s behavioral addiction, Intimacy-Anorexia, is that she chooses friends who will tolerate and even encourage her evil addiction.  Dr. Doug Weiss, who treats Intimacy-anorexia explains that a natural result of getting treatment and recovering is that intimacy-anorexics will be more apt to start choosing friends who are more healthy for them, and not just ones who encourage their disordered thinking and their entitlement to act out.  Anyhow, my wife being untreated and fully addicted, naturally befriended this dysfunctional couple, and even attends their dysfunction encouraging church.  We had done a couple things together as couples, but I never really made a connection with these two, Jenny Koehn is a large loudmouth, and her husband Leon Koehn just seems to not be passionate about anything, his conversation is boring and seems intentionally uninformative.  Anyhow, the Koehns have apparently been telling my wife to leave me, and are in fact making money off of our divorce by even renting my wife the house that she is staying in while she is foolishly tearing her own home asunder.  Throughout this process they haven’t spoken to me to ever ask for my perspective on our marriage.  I’m pretty sure they have been lied to by my wife, however, Like their foolish church, I also know they want to believe my wife’s lies, and not hear any other view.  Nor do they want her to reconcile, or be any part of helping her to not destroy her children’s home, and lose out on their continued profiting off of the destruction of my family.

While all of that is evil and demonic enough, it gets even worse!  Before they began renting my wife a house, at a Whitewater town festival, Jenny Koehn finds me sitting besides the Boy Scouts’ mess tent eating and watching my sons enjoying a bouncy-house, and she comes over and sits right next to me and starts talking.  Next thing I know, she is complaining that Leon won’t ever have sex with her (and I’m certain she knew that my wife was withholding sex from me as well) and that Leon wouldn’t even touch her.  She then starts moaning about how, a woman’s got sexual needs, and making a rather protracted appeal about how she really wants some sex and a man to play with her body, and that her husband has no interest in doing the job.  She was really putting herself out there, laying it on pretty heavy about how bad she was wanting sex.  While internally I could sympathize,  I felt that I was pretty clearly being solicited to help her come up with a solution for her need for sex, physical touch, and manly validation.   LOL  Anyhow, I didn’t volunteer for the job like she seemed to want.

I thought that the next chance I got I’d discuss the situation with Leon, as any real Christian brother would, sharing what had happened, and getting his perspective, and perhaps sharing the following Scripture with Leon:

1Corinthians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

However, I never did get a chance to talk to Leon when our boys weren’t around.  I left a message for Leon on his business’s phone, to call me, but he never did.  I believe Leon Koehn was intentionally not contacting me, like his church, because they know they are still at this very moment doing me evil, and standing against the reuniting of my family.  Anyhow, later I came to find out that the Koehns and my wife both are going to Whitewater Community Church.  so I contacted the church to alert them to the fact that the Koehns were in need of the churches help, as Leon is being sexually immoral by defrauding his wife of sex, (if the whore, Jenny Kohen, is actually telling the truth, then Leon is sexually dysfunctional) and that Jenny Koehn had solicited me to help her with her sexual needs, and perhaps has also been soliciting other men, on the streets of Whitewater, Kansas.  I doubt Jenny had in mind for me to help her out by contacting her church.  LOL  But that is the Biblical thing to do with disagreements and with brothers and sisters who are sinning.  Those of us who really are the church, will even judge the angels, and we will do it according to God’s instructions, which is why I already act according to scripture in that regard, by trying to follow the steps Jesus gave for church discipline, I demonstrate that I am a Christ follower, and I am publicly showing that these lawless fools and their apostate hireling refuse to do their part, in direct defiance of Christ Jesus.

Anyhow, so later I send an email trying to tell my wife that Jenny Koehn is not really her friend, and that in fact, while my wife was refusing me sex, and confiding that to Jenny, Jenny was inappropriately coming to me and sharing her raging unmet need for sex, intimacy, and a man’s touch, in a way that was most certainly solicitous, yet likely maintaining plausible-deniability with the sort of cunt-worshipping fools who believe all women.  I also told my wife that I had told it to their church, but that after getting no response, I was going to try contacting Leon again, assuming that those shiftless and impotent churchians had most likely done nothing.  Well, my crazy wife immediately tries to flip the tables and accuses me that I was the one soliciting Jenny.   LOL  I get offered better younger hotter tighter pussy plenty enough.  Young whores abound!  So, I respond by inviting my wife to go with me to see Dr. Weiss, and that we can both participate in the optional therapeutic polygraph and see who is really telling the truth.  LOL  Crickets!  That always shuts her up, every time!

So later my wife decides to go out to see a movie with Jenny Koehn and to drop the kids off with me, I happened to be shopping at a Walmart in Wichita, and they were coming into Wichita to see the movie so my wife, who was driving, sent Jenny in with one son to watch my cart of groceries while I then went out with Jenny and my other son to transfer the boy’s stuff over to my vehicle, before I went back in and finished shopping with the boys.  Jenny seemed really happy and excited to see me, and was quite talkative, as always.  However, about a month or two later, after my son’s Christmas program, when Jenny spots me heading over to talk to Leon as we are all leaving, Jenny intercepts me and in front of the young school children and everybody, she begins shouting at me repeatedly “don’t speak to us”, and to get away from them, and that I am “Trash” and “Psycho”.  She even threatened to call the police, and I told her to go ahead and call them.  Anyhow, I ignored her awful scene and hysterics and got over to Leon, and told him to call me, that he was being lied to, and that he should call me.  It is quite telling how happy Jenny was to be around me when Leon isn’t there, and then how insane she got trying to keep me from speaking to him.

Anyhow, Leon never called me.  So, Leon Koehn, if you’re reading this, this is part of what I was wanting to try to talk about with you privately.

And Just to spite me my wife often refuses to hand the kids over to me when she has appointments, but leaves them with the sexually dysfunctional Koehn family instead.  Seriously!  Those who refuse to engage in appropriate married sex, most generally act-out through inappropriate sexual behavior, as 1 Corinthians 7:5 has already explained results from humans’ lack of self-control inviting satanic temptations.

So, as a warning to anybody thinking about attending Whitewater Community Church, Don’t!   They will sow the satanic seeds of Feminism in your life and marriage.  Some of them counseled my wife to lie to me and run out on me.  They will set themselves up to profit off of the demise of your family.  They will refuse to obey the Bible or operate as a  Bible-following church even when they are confronted and asked to in the name of Jesus Christ.  They will cheer your wife on to divorce you, especially if you don’t worship women as much as they do.  Watch out for Whitewater Community Churches horny heavyset whores, they’re tired of the emasculated worthless cowards of their own church, and are prowling around looking to defile better men.  The whole church body, at least the ones I know, is seemingly made up of people showing some form of sexual dysfunction or deviance, and not just deviances from the word of God, but even deviances from normalcy.  I don’t believe kids are safe at Whitewater Community Church.   I’ll tell you how I came to know that in my next post.

Old Fools

Old Fools

Today I want to tell you about some of the shiftless Elders from my wife’s church, that I have tried to get to follow the Bible in providing the Biblical church discipline that Jesus Christ commands all Christ followers to perform in Matthew 18:15-17.

As I have mentioned before, the Elder Board at my wife’s “church”, seems to be run like a musical chairs game where men from the congregation are constantly rotated in and out of it, and often, even the head elder hardly knows the Bible.  Such was the case, when I contacted the Head of the Elder Board, Ted Bender.

I asked Ted to follow Jesus Christ’s instructions for the church hoping to get the church to help me to get my wife to make an effort to reconcile our marriage, as she claims to them to be wanting to do.  I let Ted know that, at that time, I had a divorce court conference coming up in less than two months.  Ted instantly blamed me for not coming to the church sooner, and said that they wouldn’t be able to help, because I just hadn’t given them enough time to really do anything.  I made Ted aware that I had come to them even before my wife moved out, and before she divorced, and had been badgering the members and leaders I knew for around a year already, trying to get them individually and collectively to try to help.  I also told him his excuse was lame and that there was plenty of time to do the right thing, and that his excuses were just evidence that he chose to make no time for the work of God.  Ted kept trying to make excuse after excuse, and I kept shooting Ted’s lame excuses down with the scripture.  Ted Bender finally blurted out, “I’m not going to let you browbeat me into telling your wife to submit to you.”  I reminded Ted that if he cared to follow God’s word, I wouldn’t even have to browbeat a head elder of a church to tell a frivolously divorcing wife to submit to her husband so that the word of God would not be blasphemed.(Titus 2:4-5)  Ted Bender claimed he then needed to search the Bible and get back with me about whether it was OK for a church to tell a wife to submit to her husband.  That was well over a year ago, and the liar never got back with me.  If you know Ted Bender, maybe you can help him to find his Bible.  Ted, if you read this, I recently bought a new giant print KJV Bible that I can read without my reading glasses, and I will give it to you if you can’t find a Bible to search through.   Apparently Ted must not have found that verse telling wives to usurp their husbands, be constantly in rebellion, and separate from their marriage, which he was hoping to find.  Anyhow, Ted Bender ran out the clock on his term as head elder without doing anything, or even keeping his now worthless word.  Ted Bender would rather anger God, than risk offending my wife, by asking her to obey God.  You don’t even have to be very smart to see who Ted fears and worships the most, women or God.  Ted led a lawless Cunt-Worshipping Coven, not a church in obedience to Jesus Christ.

1 Samuel 15:23a  For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry.

Later I called Dean Good, who had then assumed the position of head elder and requested a chance to speak to the elders about my situation, and request that their church assist me, according to the Bible, in performing the final step of “church discipline”.  Dean said I could come to the next scheduled elders meeting and discuss it with them that evening.  However, when that morning finally rolled around Dean Good called me and told me that my meeting with the elders had been cancelled.  I asked if the elders were still going to be meeting, and Dean said that they would be.  When I asked about why he had gone back on his word, and the elders were now refusing to speak with me, Dean was initially evasive and then said that they were not interested in performing church discipline on my wife, or even hearing from me about it.  I argued with Dean for a while and he was both evasive and dismissive of any possibility that my marriage problem could be any fault of my perpetually online-cheating wife.  He seemed to insist it must be a problem with my leadership, due most likely to my not attending a church like theirs.  At the end of our conversation I was sufficiently irritated that I finally told Dean Good that (as a Christian) he was “F***ing worthless!” before letting him go.  I did end up going to the elder meeting, in spite of having been uninvited, a story recounted on Boxer’s blog.  And it was quickly proven to me that there was not a man of any worth to Jesus Christ among them all.  I called the whole emasculated batch of them cowards to their faces, and watched through the glass as they just shook their downcast heads, while staring at their feet, and Dean seemed scared enough to shit himself, having been the one to brace himself in the partially opened doorway and nearest to me.  All he seemed to be interested in doing was trying to stay safe, while whimpering about my accurate assessment of him from earlier that morning.  Those false teachers know they are encouraging my wife against me, to tear my sons from their father.  And they were quite visibly fearful cowards, perhaps worried that it might be the day when they’d be held accountable for encouraging my wife against me, despite there being a group of them and only one of me.   Anyhow, after I briefly showed up to their meeting, and was denied entry, it became clear to me that my assessment of Dean Good, applied to the whole lot of their elders, and the God defying false church that they run.   They whore after the world, and are not interested in following God’s word, where it is unpopular with other Feminists.    Later when I went to my son’s AWANA awards night, there, I was going to speak to someone about how their sluts come to their apostate church dressed in such ridiculously tight clothes that it could only be an attempt to entice others.  But Dean Good, the head elder was up on stage passing out awards in jeans so painfully tight, and cringe inducing, that I realized it would be hopeless for me to try to get the church elders to hold their floozies to a standard of modesty that the head assclown himself would not even be held to.  At a church that blatantly ignores God’s directions but constantly seeks women’s approval, they must feel that “buns of steel” is one of the spiritual gifts.  LOL   Put it away Dean!  You’re too old to be dressing like your churches lawless young sluts.  I’m not entirely positive that Dean is trying to entice women with what must be painfully tight pants, however.  Stay tuned, to this site, and I’ll tell you later which of this churches other leadership might be interested in seeing Dean Good in such tight pants.

Dean, if you read this, even though my wife is financially impoverishing me, I am willing to take you to Walmart and help you pick out, and buy you, a couple pair of pants that fit appropriately, so that you aren’t setting such a poor example for the younger people, and so the leadership of your church could begin to enforce some standard of modesty without being hypocrites.

Well, after the AWANA awards, while the churches largely overweight congregation was eating ice cream, I found elder Ron Harder, a slender man, and began to talk to him regarding my wife’s divorce.  Ron immediately told me that his term was up, and that he was no longer an elder.  And like with so many other conversations with members of their church, Ron began trying to help me piece together what I was doing to cause my wife’s continual infidelity to her marriage vows.  LOL  I shared some Bible verses with Ron to correct his foolish false assumptions, and Ron responded by saying that “one man and his Bible is a very dangerous thing”.  As though I needed their apostate whore-worshipping church to help me understand how the plain text of the Bible never actually means what it clearly and repeatedly says regarding wives submitting to their husbands, God hating divorce, and Etc.

For those of you who don’t know, Ron Harder, was a close relative of my father’s, but somehow, very opposite of my father, Ron Harder comes across as severely effeminate.  So much so, that I worry for Ron’s soul, and I can’t help but get the creeps whenever I talk with Ron.  As he doesn’t have to be that effeminate!  I’m pretty positive he chooses to be that way.  While I myself sometimes wish I had a deeper voice, like a radio disc jockey, I don’t believe any man can sound as queer as Ron Harder without making a conscious effort to sound queer.  Perhaps Ron could wear some work boots or drive a pickup truck or find some other way to masculinize his image, to dispel his effeminate creepiness.

1 Corinthians 6:9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,

Anyhow, Ron Harder, whom I suspect has been married for around 50 years, tells me that if he tried convicting his wife with the Bible like I do, that she would divorce him too.  Wow!  What a worthless woman!  Ron, who should know his wife better than anyone, tells me she is just a few Bible verses of conviction away from divorcing him.  She is so rebellious that she wouldn’t even take Biblical reproof from her husband.  And that is why men should not take their families to Feminist churches like Whitewater Community Church.  Because even an elder’s marriage of 50 years that should be rock solid, is tenuous, and he is afraid to convict his wife using the Bible, because they have taught the wives Feminist rebellion and discontent, instead of the Bible, contentment, and Godly submission.  These typical elders are shameful and neither know, nor make their church follow, the Bible.

Cowardly Claassen Double-Feature

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Whitewater Community Church is apparently too cowardly to follow God or the Bible, when it requires the correction of a woman.  They give women the worth-ship to continue doing their evil because they are faithless, never realizing that God’s word is worth sharing with unrepentant women who are heading to hell.  I have yet to find a single man attending that church who is man enough to stand up for God’s ways and tell a woman, like my wife, to knock off her selfish and frivolous divorce, and the destruction of our children’s home.  Nor do they have enough of the love of Jesus Christ, to do what is right, because the love of God is just not in them.  They have the love of this world instead.  Now I will give the example of two typical men who refuse to help my children and my family:

Gary Claassen:  One Sunday I see my relative, Gary Claassen, walking into church following well behind his gluttonous wife.   Her obesity is proof of an extended pattern of gluttony that is way too prevalent in their “church”.   Apparently the fatpocalypse is upon them, due to the widespread lack of self-control among them.  I know my wife is also overweight, and becoming a diabetic with a fatty liver, and I can tell you, as her husband, it is for no other reason than that she is both too lazy to do more work and she lacks the self control to eat less.  I have asked my wife to fast and pray about our marriage, but in 18 years she has always refused to fast, even one meal, and she considers fasting “extreme”.  Furthermore why would a woman fast over her marriage, when she is the one intentionally doing the evil in order to destroy any intimacy.  If she actually wanted a better marriage all she would have to do is stop intentionally being evil to me.  No prayer or fasting would be necessary for her to fix things if she cared to have a functional marriage.  But she selfishly prefers a non-functional marriage without intimacy, just like her parents’ marriage.

Anyhow,  back to Gary Claassen.  So I’m there at my wife’s church to pick up my sons after Sunday school, and I call out to Gary to tell my wife to knock off her frivolous divorce, and he ducks his head and pretends to neither see nor hear me, as he follows his obese master into “church”.  What a useless coward!  He refuses to speak the truth of God’s word to a woman in his “church” who is destroying her children’s home and thereby blaspheming the Gospel of Christ.  Even when asked by her husband in the name of Jesus Christ to do such a simple thing, that only involves speaking a bit and apparently having more godliness or manhood than Gary Claassen can find within himself.

I can remember a time earlier in life when one of the members of his current church, that has been a leader there, was badmouthing Gary, and I stood up for Gary.  And for what?  Only to find out decades later that Gary lacks the character to speak on my behalf, like I already did for him.  Gary Claassen is emasculated and pathetic.  I defended a churchgoing man who in hindsight deserves to be shamed for his cowardly lack of any functioning religion when it comes to having the balls to confront a wayward woman.

Dan Claassen:  I went to the AWANA children’s program awards night to see my sons’ accomplishments being recognized.  Apparently Dan Claassen was also stepping down from being the AWANA leader, and got recognized himself.   So afterwards I approach Dan, a distant relative, to ask him in the name of Jesus Christ to speak to my wife and tell her to quit her frivolous divorce, and Dan literally trots away from me at his quickest waddle, short of breaking into a full run, without ever acknowledging whether or not he will perform my request.   But It was clear to me he didn’t have the balls for it, or even to talk about doing it.

Now I happen to have seen Dan on more than one occasion at work, grab his fellow employee, Nate, with a plyers, and pinch him, for no other reason than to be sadistic to Nate, who screamed, but chooses to “turn the other cheek” more than anybody else would in that situation.  Dan clearly has some issues, for him to be sadistic like that.   My question is why Dan has no problem being such a sadistic guy and abusing a fellow man, like virtuous Nate, for no reason, and yet completely lacks the balls to confront a woman who is frivolously tearing apart her children’s home?  To me Dan’s behavior reveals that he clearly worships women while hating his fellow man.  I also find it alarming that Whitewater Community Church would choose a guy with those sort of issues with sadism as the head of their entire AWANA program for the children.  It seems clear to me, what sort of religion Dan has, where he will sneak up behind and attack a fellow man who has not wronged him, with a tool, and yet he will refuse to say a few words of admonition to an unrepentant and sinful woman, when asked to by her husband, out of fear that he might possibly offend her by even speaking of her wickedness.  Dan is an eternal loser who, like so many in his “church”, spites men, made in the image of God, while he worships women.

1 Timothy 5:3 Honour widows that are widows indeed.  4 But if any widow have children or nephews, let them learn first to shew piety at home, and to requite their parents: for that is good and acceptable before God.  5 Now she that is a widow indeed, and desolate, trusteth in God, and continueth in supplications and prayers night and day.  6 But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.  7 And these things give in charge, that they may be blameless.  8 But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.  9 Let not a widow be taken into the number under threescore years old, having been the wife of one man.

I can remember a time when, due to a hostile liquidation of my business, I was out of work, and Jobs were incredibly scarce, especially any in my field and near my location.  The members of Whitewater Community Church who were relatives of mine were counselling my wife to steal my kids and run out on me, because I was “worse than an infidel”.  And this was done while my wife was online publicly claiming to our network of associates that she “couldn’t figure out whether I was too proud, or too lazy, to get a job”, thereby greatly reducing my chances of ever getting a helpful recommendation, by her comments.  And yes, in accordance with their evil counsel, my wife stole my children and ran out on me for 9 months and went back to live where all the lovers who had been sending her dick-pics lived.  Anyhow, it was at this point that the Lord revealed to me that the verse was not just a verse intended to bash husbands,(as they selectively use it) but a verse intended to call all men in Christ, as patriarchs, to care for not only their immediate families, but their extended families, thereby showing that Christ’s love is in them.

Why do my relatives’ “Christian” care for me and my family, amount to encouraging my wife as she frivolously divorces me, and absolutely refusing to ask her to submit to her husband by getting the couple’s treatment that I know she needs for her Intimacy-Anorexia?    Our divorce goes to court in a month, and after two years of sucking me dry(only financially) my wife has still refused to attend any joint counselling or mediation, in the interest of the children, while falsely telling her fool church, that she is trying to reconcile, and holding me hostage by my religious belief that I should make every godly effort to reconcile my children’s home for their best interest, and to prevent the word of God from being blasphemed.(Titus 2:4-5)  The truth is these men only provide wickedness and enabling cowardice, encouraging the destruction of my family, and have chosen to be worse than infidels to me and to my family by refusing to even provide any free church discipline.  They can’t even be forced to perform church discipline on an unrepentant whore, because she is the likeness and image of their goddess, the Great Whore.  The undeniably false brethren at Whitewater Community Church are continuing to be worse than infidels to me, and my sons, and they cause God’s word to be blasphemed, by willfully choosing to participate in and encourage the separation of my marriage.  When asked in the name of Jesus Christ, to be the church as described in the Bible, they, scamper off as cowards.

Ashamed of God’s Word

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The Bible passage below is one that Whitewater Community Church is ashamed of.  They cannot teach it at face value, because it destroys the foundation of satanic Feminism.

1 Corinthians 11:1 Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.

Now I praise you, brethren, that ye remember me in all things, and keep the ordinances, as I delivered them to you.

But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head.

But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.

For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.

For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.

For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man.

Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.

Righteous God put men in charge.  Men alone are to pray with uncovered heads, because men alone are the image and glory of the Father.  Women were made as a second and decidedly inferior class of human, weaker vessels, and not equal to bearing God’s image or glory.  Women were created to be the glory of men, to serve men, not the other way around.

All Whitewater Community Church offers is ignorance, lies, and excuses for their Feminist unbelief, and resulting faithless disobedience.  They are too embarrassed to require women to even show token submission to God and their own husbands by wearing a symbolic head covering when they pray.  For 1900 years, Christian women all over the world wore head coverings when they prayed.  The early church fathers, some of whom were trained by the apostles, unanimously wrote about men alone being the image and glory of God, and literal head coverings(not just their hair) being required for the women.  But now in this adulterous and sinful age, women are not even encouraged to show token submission to God and their own husbands, and the churches have previously unheard of divorce rates, and are full of sexual immorality, faithlessness and cowardice.  They have turned away from following God and turned aside to lies.  They are wicked daughter churches of the Mother of Harlots that the Bible warns us about.  Don’t bed down with these dogs.

Kay Hirsch = Non-Stop Homewrecking

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My boys were all smiles after finally pinning their father during a wrestling match.

Above is a picture, just to show the home that is being torn apart, to the cheers of Whitewater Community Church.

As I mentioned in My Marriage At one point over 8 years ago my wife was having online affairs, refusing me sex all but once or twice a month, and I walked in on her looking at a guy’s dick-pic that he had sent her through Facebook.  And she defiantly refused to unfriend the guy, started taunting me, and tried to start a physical fight, apparently hoping I would hit her.  I also learned that she was sending them enticing photos and asking them if they found her sexually attractive.  Well needless to say I was upset about this and was telling her to quit being such a whore.  So my wife tells everybody I’m angry and verbally abusive, calling her a whore,(as if there was no reason) and that she thinks I’m a danger to the children, and that I might “snap”.  Well guess what?  Some crazy-cunts at an interchurch “women’s Bible study” hear her unhinged slander, and tell her that, contrary to the word of God, she needs to lie to me, steal the children and run off back to where all her former lovers live.  My wife was invited there by my nutjob sister in law who has never gotten along with me since I mistook her for a boy at a lake party.  I hadn’t seen her in years since she had married my brother, and when I finally met them again, she had her hair all butched off and it was wet, and there were foreign exchange students at the party, and I, thought she was a foreign boy, and wound up asking some people, does that Asian boy know he’s wearing a woman’s swimsuit, shouldn’t somebody clue him in?  I guess the worst part was that my cousin called her over, and I still couldn’t tell that she was female or my brother’s wife.  I thought they were all joking with me, trying to punk me into thinking the “dude” in the woman’s swimsuit was actually female.  I wasn’t buying it.  It went pretty bad, and then she wouldn’t accept my apology.  LOL

Well anyway, after my wife finally came back after running out on me for 9 months.  A counselor told her to share all her passwords with me, that that is what a married wife should do to stay honest and build trust.  well, it took Pam two weeks to delete all the stuff she didn’t want me to see, and her entire Facebook was erased when she finally handed over her passwords but, I even found some stuff that wasn’t good among the stuff she left for me to see.  Apparently these women at the “Women’s Bible Study” were waging a campaign to get my wife to run out on me, stealing our kids, and lying to me, and to go back out to where all the guys from her past lived, that she was having the perpetual internet affairs with.  And they never once asked me about any of it.  They just stupidly assumed she was being verbally abused just because I had told her to quit being a whore, after a decade of her continuous taunting and “emotional” affairs.(as far as I know)  My sister in law had emailed Pam about whether she should run out on me saying:

Now is the time for you to stand up and decide. You know where I, Kae, Helen, and Carolyn all stand. We are all of the exact same opinion. BUT IT IS STILL YOUR DECISION. We will all continue to love you no matter what you decide. But we are all of us cheering you on to make the RIGHT decision. Doesn’t mean it won’t hurt. Doesn’t mean it will come with [your husband’s] blessings.

I asked my wife if Elaine, my sister in law, meant Kay Hirsch, and my wife confirmed that yes Kay Hirsch was working hard with Elaine to get her to run off on me.  An email from her then accuses me of having mental issues, and encourages Pam to lie to me and to keep lying to me:

You have been honest with [your husband] many times but he doesn’t react well to that. You know that his brain isn’t all ok right now, so that’s why you can’t tell him any more truths, for now. Its ok to be sneaky for now. This is not like you’ve been sneaky the past 10 years of your marriage. Just 11 more days. You can do it.

Who would want someone to lie, to run out on their husband, to steal his children from him?  Would that be a servant of God, or a servant of Satan?  It’s obvious who they are.

And I don’t know why Kay would do this to me.  In a weird coincidence I went to a small college with Kay down in East Texas, She was Kay Mulholland at that time.  I knew of her and saw her around a lot, but never really had anything to do with her during college.  After college she moved up to very near where I lived with her new husband to work in the Wichita aircraft industry like I did.  I met her one day in the Whitewater library, and she started talking to me about a bunch of people from college.  Apparently she kept track of a lot of people.  She was telling me who had gotten divorced, and the dirt on all sorts of people, most of whom I either didn’t know or didn’t remember. She would ask me if I knew some guy, I would say, I sure didn’t, but she would proceed to tell me all the gossip about him anyway.  I don’t think I have ever met another person so full of gossip in my whole life.  Anyhow, I have no idea why she would seek out my wife then and try to separate our marriage, and make an eight year campaign of it.  Somehow, that’s just got STALKER written all over it.  But the point of the matter is, that if Whitewater Community Church has women like that, and they allow them to separate marriages like mine, without ever even speaking to me to verify the crap my wife makes up, there is a good chance they’ll try to do it to you also.

On a separate note later Elaine was instructing my wife on how to disrespect me:

If [her husband] starts to want to prove his point, I let him make it or I tell him I don’t wanna hear it and I leave the room. Perhaps on the phone, you can just say something like “I don’t like your tone” or “You seem frustrated so I will let you calm down” and then just hang up. If he calls back, don’t answer.

I told my wife, who thought Elaine had a great marriage, that if Elaine was doing half of the disrespectful crap she was instructing Pam to do, she’d end up blowing up her own marriage.  Later, I had to find out about my brother’s divorce from a friend, because Pam didn’t want to tell me and hear, “I told you so”, but she still got to hear it.  Sometimes the homewreckers wreck their own homes.  But, usually they’ll go after the homes of others they know.  Which is another good reason to steer clear of the homewreckers at Whitewater Community Church, who have been self reportedly cheering my wife on to leave me.  Don’t think they won’t try teaching your wife to lie and run out on you also.  They’re conducting the work of their father the devil.